Man being an most intelligent animal on earth, should not
create stress or distress for others. Dowry is one such liability.
Dowry can also be known as marriage settlement, gift, donation,
offering, endowment. It is offered during marriage by bride parents
to the bridegroom family. Some ethics here. Some gifts given with
full happiness and consent for the well being on consent is good, if the financial means and backup of the bride family is in good shape. Anything which cause stress to their financial resources
is bad. Works worldwide. The bride may be held hostage, after marriage until all their pestering demands are met. It creates an
uneasy atmosphere and breach of trust. Just avoid such shady people. I could detect such people instantly. You just need to provide me either their name or photo, I ask for. Our mediums can
connect with their energy levels and gives us the outcome.
We have heard about dowry in matrimonial sector. Its informal
mode of payment agreed before marriage or wedlock, to look
after the bride. I personally believe it is not good, a form
of abuse and exploitation. It creates some kind of pressure, anxiety and burden to girl parents. (In Indian context)
Its the bride parents, who have to
pay to the bridegroom family. May be in full payment or in
installments later. It could also be house, land, vehicles, gadgets
or accessories. It can also lead to arguments, divorces, domestic
abuse later.
Cakewalk detection:
Using my art, I can detect all those prospects, who don’t ask for
dowry. Say, if you can give a list of 25 men prospects, I can
pull the one or their family, who don’t need dowry. If nobody exists in that list, I can also ask my art, who comes near or little. It just takes me few seconds. I just need their names and
photo if appropriate. I use aura detection methods for this purpose, which I could feel remotely of a person 1000s of miles away. It just takes me few seconds to 3 or 5 minutes to feel all energy.
So how it helps?
In those zones or places, where dowry or monetary exchange is a part of custom before marriage, it relieves the girl and their parents from financial burden. It saves your family resources, which can be used for other emergency purposes like medical or a good secure cover.
Max deductions:
I can also detect this instantly.
No marriage expenses – Just go to your chosen religion path and marry and just a sign at registar office.
A small function in a banquet hall, with 20 to 50 closed people,
who matter to you will do. (Optional, not required)
No ROI,no loyalty. Many forget the event. we just need friends or people, who come to our aid in times of need, say like medical emergency, life tough times.
No fake friends, who destroy your family resources.
Change in climate:
We have seen Covid or pandemic for 2 years and I have personally
seen the distress of many people. People who have property, not
able to sell their property for upto 2 years, even in prime locations. Liquid cash is very important. Business loss, unemployment, a secure financial cover for your family for upto
1 year is very imp. Calculate your family expenses, and see if you match that. That means, you should be able to withdraw cash in emergency instantly, without taking loans or moneylenders.
Do not be carried away by your neighbors, relatives, friends or anyone, who spend a fortune or wedding or lavish. Nobody should
insist or pressure anyone. Some people who put pressure to spend of weddings are worse than enemies. It depends upon your financial health of your family. I don’t have anything personal against people who spend fortune or weddings or entertain people. I have seen many such marriages break and many cases evil eye. Dont start your married life, with marriage debt. Instead those savings can be used for children, medical emergency and look after parents. Keep parents happy.
Gifts consent:
A girl or boy family is very happy about proposal and gifts money, vehicles or house. No force or compulsion here. It gives a big boost to married couple with a good start. But not all are that lucky. Don’t stress the family resources. Any gifts should be free will and doesn’t destroy financial health of bride family. (most of the time it is girl family gifting)
Qualities expected in bride:
So there is no dowry or waived off. People expect some basic qualities in bride like cooking, housekeeping, nursing, attending calls or run errands. Any other skills which helps the bridegroom family. That is very imp life skill. Try to learn all this skills as much as possible. Sometimes managing the business of spouse, on their behalf.
Reciprocal gifts (bad practise):
I have attended many marriages and have seen strange custom of
reciprocal gifts in some states. Sounds foolish. That means, you gift someone marriage with cash, gadgets, gold and you are expecting that – during you or your kids marriage, they gift you in return. Sometimes the value may be high or low, or no reciprocal gifts. In many cases, the couple just moved to some other state or country and may not be able to attend your marriage. So, no resentment. Gift 1 way and dont expect anything in return.
Dowry: evils and crimes linked to it.
I have seen lot of cases where dowry is related to many crimes like
constant harassing for money, mental and physical abuse by inlaws,
even worse damage. There are lot of ethics involved here. If you or your family agreed for dowry it may create trouble in future, if default. Its discriminatory by nature, and we dont support it.
Dowry waiver – 0 to little (happens often)
So, I have a method to detect those people, who consent for no dowry. In some cases, you may not find any such prospects. In that case, I can also find someone who ask the least say for less than 2 lakhs and then see anyone detected. Good integrity of the people is very imp. I could detect the negativity of people instantly using my art. The result is happiness and freedom in marriage, with certain responsibilities.
No spending on meetups: (almost waived off)
So a women or their family, found a potential bridegroom through their local network, relatives, friends, online matrimony sites, newspapers or any mediums. There will be a meetup where the bridegroom and their family will meetup the girl family, to get to know better. The girl family excited about new proposal, will decorate the house, order catering or cook lot of expensive dishes
for guests. Some people spend money beyond their means.
Guess what, few proposals get rejected after match making or some weird reasons, which I keep hidden. So the time, energy and money is wasted and after few bridegroom proposals get turned down by them, due to no fault of the girl and circumstances not under their control. Upto the extent of girl family, asked to come to expensive hotels, other venue like banquet calls, spending money on transport and hotel expenses to foot bill, with no fixed outcome. So the system may be abused or exploited by many. Talk to them upfront, like why not we meet after match making is accepted or both talk over phone and understand better and then commit to meet if appropriate.
Caution: Those who reject other proposals for no proper reason,
will just end up accumulating lot of curses and it may affect all spheres of life, like your kids or bridegroom future marriage may be ruined, health problems, problems in their vocation. If you believe this alliance may wont work, just dont meet them in person. I have personally seen many divorces and worse happens to such
family. It affects all family members.
How can we make it much better?
So, using my art I can detect those people, who consent for no dowry and some cases little. It all depends upon your luck and energy levels. I will try my best to help you out. We just need a lot of prospects, like we need their name or photo to analyse it.
The result is, an understanding spouse and lot of money saved for
emergency situations. Let the rich, do whatever they want,splurge on marriages, nothing personal.
But middle class to those people, who work on jobs or small business to make a living, you need to think and avoid such people, who try to bring the family resources down in the form of dowry and future harrasment or local customs of dowry, which put bride and their parents in distress.
Just keep moving and avoid such people. You are all your own. The world has a mixed pool, some with big heart and
they just need a reliable spouse, someone who can share their burden, share problems in life, not create problems in your life and trouble for your parents. Our beliefs and values are different. You can see in the news, many abuse, exploitation and worse.
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